First Rains of the Fall Season are like Tears of Grief.

Tears. ¬†On the biggest challenges for men today is to sit long and safe enough with the pain that is inside — to really get in touch with it.

Often the key is a face of another man who sees that pain — sees how hard it’s been to hold on to for so long.

Open up to the Eastern direction, open to our sadness.

Sit with it.

Cradle your partners.

Hear the loss.

Call on the Lover.

As E.A. Bucchianeri said, “When all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.”

Sit in a circle of loving men and open to the grief that cries through you to be heard?

~ Beautiful Kingfisher